About Me

Oh, so much to say. Well, I like Iced oat-milk lattes, long walks in the mountains and setting fire to societies’ failed relationships building plan.. Oh, and massages.. LOVE a good massage!

But in other areas you may be interested in, I have a PHD in parenting from the “School of hard knocks”. I did my residency in a 3 bedroom house with my mom and dad and 10 other siblings. I did HARD time, like 18 years! But, I learned a lot about conflict, behavior styles and God. Honestly, I’d highly recommend the school to everyone, but in all reality the teachers are burnt out after 11 kids (lol) and I completely understand.

I’m a bit of a thinker, which lends itself well to noticing the things that constantly fail in life, but are repeated for lack of a better idea. Yeah, I don’t like to repeat mistakes. So I’ve studied a lot about how people work and I’m raising two thriving teenagers who are all in on this idea of learning through wisdom instead of unnecessary pain.

One other cool factor is that I LIVED the very principles that I am sharing with you. I met my wife Michelle at the ripe age of 16 while serving at church. I treated her like a sister and built a solid friendship that turned into a solid relationship. She was my first kiss, my first romance and the first girl I gave my heart to. We married 5 years later, I was 21, she was 18. This year we will celebrate 22 years of marriage. And although 22 years is a serious accomplishment, the best part is that those years have been AMAZING and they just keep getting better.

I guess God’s principles work after all :)

So here I am, writing an instruction manual to rescue the masses and lead this generation into a new era of healthy relationships that are based on Godly principles and skills and lead to wonderful, fulfilling, long lasting marriages!